• Terror

    I want to experience being *terrified*. I am unsure how realistic this is to do in a safe manner, however. BDSM allows us to experience a lot of emotions and sensations that might otherwise be unavailable to us and terror would presumably be one of those. I’ve read a fair number of write ups on fear play scenes, however, when I try to imagine myself in the shoes of the bottom, I can’t help but think I wouldn’t be scared - no matter how well done the scene was, in the back of my mind, I would know it wasn’t “real.”

    July 19, 2017 - 3 minute read -
  • I Want to Own JT

    A slave’s goal is to bring joy to their Owner’s life. So I’d like to bring joy to yours. I’m told there might be a step or two in between you reading this and the collaring ceremony I have planned and budgeted.

    July 14, 2017 - 2 minute read -
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  • Accepting Yourself as a Male Submissive

    I was recently on the Erotic Awakenings podcast where Master Dan interviewed me on the topic “I’m having a hard time accepting myself as a male submissive.” Once the podcast is released, I will link to it here. Since I am a much more eloquent writer than I am speaker, I wanted to add to my thoughts here.

    July 13, 2017 - 5 minute read -
  • Interactive Entertainment

    She stepped away from him, and he felt another presence behind him. Hands, female he thought, but couldn’t be sure, rested on his shoulders briefly, then moved down over his chest. Fingers lightly played over his nipples, and a moan escaped him.

    July 11, 2017 - 7 minute read -
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  • Book Review: How To Find A Dominant Woman by Sharyn Ferns

    Fresh off the digital press, How To Find A Dominant Woman, the second in Sharyn Ferns’ ‘How-to’ series on Femdom is a quick read, chock full of advice for the discerning submissive man.

    July 3, 2017 - 1 minute read -
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  • Zen Kink

    Having gotten very active at a local Zen Buddhist center the past 5 months or so, I’ve done a lot of thinking on how my spirituality fits into my sexuality and Master/slave relationships. Below I’ve listed the five precepts, or vows, I look during my precept ceremony.

    June 29, 2017 - 4 minute read -
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  • Power vs. Authority

    We call it power exchange. Usually I see it defined as a relationship where a slave gives up their power to their master. I think this is faulty thinking. What a slave gives up is authority over their power. A powerless employee is useless, a powerless soldier is useless, and a powerless slave is useless.

    June 28, 2017 - 2 minute read -
  • I'm back!

    Hello folks and welcome. I finally got around to bringing my blog back online on a new domain - sexandslavery.com.

    June 26, 2017 - 2 minute read -
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  • What does M/s look like to you?

    November 16, 2016 - 1 minute read -
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  • Affirmations

    September 2, 2016 - 2 minute read -
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